How to Find Mr Right Posted By : Michelle Stevens

There is no doubt that looking for a partner is one of the hardest things that one can do. Either the timing isn't good for you or for him. He is currently in a relationship or is about to move overseas. What doesn't make the situation better is the stress and anxiety that comes with the search. No-one wants to be alone and the fear of that can make things even more difficult and taxing.

You need to put these worries out of your mind and just concentrate on the things that you can control. What that is, is to go out and meet people. The more people you meet, the better chance of you meeting the right person. Sure along the way you are going to meet a lot of weird and creepy guys but that is just part of the process.

If you are a nightclub and party person that is a good place to start. There are a lot of guys there and everything is out looking for a good time. But if you aren't, you are going to find this a waste of time. Instead you may prefer to meet guys in a setting which isn't as intense or high strung.

A good idea is at a sporting event. Guys love to watch sport and if you go to the football or something like that you are sure to meet many. The good thing about meeting a guy in setting such as this is that it is a very good insight as to the type of person that he is. From this point of view, it can be far more beneficial than a date.

He won't be pretending or on show so you can get a glimpse of what type of person he is. Is he a gentleman who is well-mannered and well spoken? Is he uncouth or cheap? You are going to find all this out as you see his reactions to watching the sport unfold. How does he react to things? Is he a friendly guy? Is he the kind of person you can see yourself growing old with?

Another place where you can see how a guy reacts is the casino. Stand by the blackjack table and watch him play. How does he react to winning and losing? Is he graceful or does he make excuses? Is he polite to the dealer? What is he like to his fellow players? You will find all of these things out giving you a better picture of him than what a date would.

The fact of the matter is that a date is a bit of a charade. People try to put on a show and come across as someone they aren't. They want to do anything they can in order not to offend. What is the point of not letting the other person know what you are like for fear of them not liking you? It seems like the exact opposite of what the date should achieve.

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