People make the mistake of believing sexuality has got to do with talents, some people are not just gifted. However sex should be seen more has a task, it takes hard work to get it done well, you just won't achieve sexual pleasure by mistake, here are some tips to help you rediscover yourself sexually.
1. Prepare: are you a good cook? Sex is like cooking, every dish has a recipe, and no matter how good a cook you are if your dish is short of ingredients or has too much of a particular ingredient, your title as a good cook cant save the dish, if it's bad it's bad.
I have discovered that sex has to be well prepared to be enjoyed, if you decide to have sex every day, then you must prepare for it everyday, psychologically you have to prepare your mind as well as your spouse for it. I'm not saying you should write your spouse a formal letter stamped and sealed. But what I mean is you should prepare your partners mind, it could be an erotic text message, a horny phone call, or a simple short note, women find it difficult to just jump into bed and have sex, so prepare.
2. Get creative: Like I said sex is like food, a common excuse men give to flirt around is that they need a taste of variety, although I totally disagree because that's plain fornication, I agree that everyone needs a taste of variety. Can you try taking rice as breakfast, lunch and dinner for a week? Crazy isn't it? That's how sex gets when you are not creative. Always add a touch of spice to sex, always introduce something new.
3. Talk: make out time to talk to your spouse about your sexuality, always make sure the motive is to achieve a better sexual experience for a better marriage, and not to run down your partner or compare him to your ex. Talking can help you discover your partners g-spot, talk freely about sex often it helps you bond your relationship.
4. Research: No matter how creative you try to get, what you don't know, you don't know. Its really important that you should make constant research so that you learn new tips and tricks that will help you light up you sexuality as well as your marriage, read books, read articles, visit helpful sites and blogs dedicated to achieving great sex in your marriage all the best!
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