You want to learn how to keep your wife happy. Good for you! It takes a big man to realize that his marriage may need a little polishing. You have to admit, like most married men, that when your wife is happy, your marriage is at its best. When your wife starts to feel some discontent and it becomes painfully obvious that she's not getting what she need s from you anymore, it's time to get to work. You can do some very simple things that will have a large impact on your relationship. The best part is that you can start on them today.
Understanding how to keep your wife happy centers on recognizing her needs. One thing that your wife needs from you is your attention. This has to come in the form of both listening to her and spending time with her. When she's talking to you, don't zone her out. Even if you've heard what she's telling you countless times before, don't nod your head in agreement while her words go in one ear and out the other. Really listen and absorb what she's telling you. She needs to know that she can talk to you about anything and you'll be attentive and interested.
By the same token you have to be willing, able and ready to spend focused time with your wife each day. She needs to know that you want to put her before everything else. At the end of the day spend some time talking with her or even watching television together. If one of you goes to bed before the other, try and wake up at the same time, so the one-on-one time can occur in the morning. You have to ensure there's time each day for the two of you to connect and spend a few quiet moments just being together.
As you already know women love romance. There isn't a wife anywhere who doesn't appreciate when her husband takes the time to do something utterly romantic for her. It may be stopping on the way home to pick up some fresh flowers just because you love her or buying a novel that you know she's been wanting to read. If you're creative consider writing her a poem or even writing something romantic on a slip of paper and putting it in her handbag. Small gestures like this can have a huge impact on your wife's happiness and the strength of your marriage.
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