What to Do If Your Man Is Always Making Fun of You? 7 Tips You Have to Follow Right Away

It can be very painful when the man you like chooses to make fun of you at all times. If your man is being a pain and is causing you pain by making fun of you here is what you need to do to make him stop.

All is Not well
The biggest mistake that you can make when a man is continuously making fun of you is by pretending that all is well and it is all going to go away. You need to let him know that all is not well and that you do not like the way he is behaving with you and he needs to stop.

Keep some distance from him for a while
If he doesn't stop then you have to create a bit of a distance between the two of you and become a little detached. That will make him feel that his behavior is affecting you adversely and that he should put an end to this pathetic act.

Try to talk him out of it
If he feels that you are the one being immature about the whole thing then you should sit him down and explain to him why you don't like what he is doing and request him to respect your wishes. Talk to him seriously so that he doesn't laugh you off.

Point out his imperfections
When your man refuses to listen to you and continues to act in the a he pleases you need to make him see that if he is willing to make fun of you then he should be ready to face his own imperfections as well. Point out his imperfections brutally and make him see what it feels like to be laughed at.

Laugh it out with him
You can also try reverse psychology with your man. He is making fun of you to get a reaction out of you. As pathetic as it may sound, sometimes just playing along with him and laughing hard at his jokes on you will take the joy out of his pastime and will make him stop.

Tell him that you are not going to tolerate his attitude
Give him a warning that if he doesn't stop then you have had enough with his attitude. He needs to know that there are consequences to every act of his.

Show him how immature he is being
As a direct consequence of his behavior show him his own immaturity by making fun of him in the same way as he does of you. If you pay him back in the same coin he will learn his lesson immediately.

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Maintenance Versus Repair: Making Marriage Easy

Recently I posted a link to a webinar that focused on how to deal with in-laws and I was very amused by the array of remarks that I received, both on Facebook and through email. Most of the responses that I received were either reflective of a defeatist attitude, or a nonchalant one, declaring that one does not need a webinar to be told how to live a practical life. My question is, "When can you actually tell that it is time to brush up on your relationship skills?"

As a relationship coach, I get my fair share of justifications from women, ranging from, "My situation is different," to "It is easier said than done." I disagree with both statements.

I have learnt that the first step towards improving your state of being is admitting that countless other individuals have not only gone through a similar situation, but also emerged triumphant. Singling yourself out usually ends all possibilities of learning from others' accounts and experiences. Of all the women that have walked on this earth until this very moment, do you actually believe that no one has felt what you are going through right now?

To the second statement that I want to refute, it is always easily done once you have said it is so, to yourself. Call marriage easy and it will be easy. Call it a chore and it will most certainly tire you out. It is fashionable to complain about marriage life, the in-laws, and generally how life changes after you tie the knot.

Everyone remembers the straight-A student in school, the one who swore she did not study enough for an exam, and then aced it. You can call her brainy, intelligent, lazy or lucky. The truth remains, she put in a lot more effort than she admits to you, and even herself. For her, studying for the exam was easy since she kept telling herself that it would be. Marriage has the same approach, tell yourself you can do it, remain committed to it, and you will believe it is easy and that attainable for all.

There is no wisdom in calling for a repair-man for a job that could be fixed through maintenance. Similarly, developing and discovering yourself as a woman will help you save your relationship in ways that are easy and within your control. Finding ways to dedicate more towards your marriage will eliminate the need for repair.

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